The Religious Trauma Collective Online Event

A space for connection, understanding and stories, from Australia & New Zealand.

A Space for Connection, Understanding & Healing


This event is for you, if you have:

  • Experienced harm in faith spaces
  • Tried to reimagine healthy faith expressions
  • Have felt confused and disillusioned by toxic theology
  • Experienced purity culture
  • Are questioning your identity apart from faith
  • Been part of a cult
  • You’re a practitioner working with this cohort
  • You’re supporting family and friends going through this experience
  • You just want to learn more about religious and spiritual trauma.

Our guests are storytellers, people who have lived experience of religious and spiritual trauma and practitioners who support survivors. There’s podcasters, those still in church trying to make it safer, researchers, cult experts and more.

The content of this event is internationally relevant, but we’re intentionally platforming voices from Australia and Aotearoa New Zealand. 

You’ll learn about this big topic, connect with those working for change and importantly, become part of an emerging network in our part of the world.

We hold on to the belief that we heal in community. 

What To Expect

- Powerful, pre-recorded sessions from a broad range of Australian and New Zealand voices. Conversations about faith deconstruction, religious trauma, cult recovery, purity culture and working with people who have lived experience.

- A final session inviting us to reflect and gather in a contemplative way.

- Purchase an all-access pass which gives you ongoing access until December 31st 2025 and includes loads of bonus extras.

- Resources and practical tools for healing, growth and understanding.

Check out the All Access Pass below.

What To Expect

Get the All Access Pass

It includes some fabulous bonus extras.

  • Unlimited access to all session recordings until December 31st, 2025.
  • A completion certificate for your association OPD hours if you’re a practitioner.
  • Ebooks, resources and three bonus sessions.
  • Discounts on speaker online courses.

Three bonus sessions:

  • “Deconstructing A Fear Based Faith” with Elise Heerde and Mel Winterbine.
  • “When You Just Have To Laugh: Cringeworthy Reflections” Jane, Sam and Elise laugh and wince over journals and Facebook posts.
  • “Self-Soothing Using Havening Techniques” Jane leads a short session on experiencing calm through Havening.  

eBooks and Resources

  • “A Shattered Sanctuary: From Fellowship to Freedom” Sam Sellers (valued at $19)
  • “The Sentimental Non-Believer. On Loving and Leaving God” Jane Kennedy (valued at $19)
  • "Unlearning Obedience: Losing Religion and Finding Myself" Elise Heerde (valued at $19)
  • "Integrating Spirituality & Identity: Reflective Exercises For Clients" This workbook is a supportive resource for therapists working with LGBTQIA+ clients navigating the complex journey of integrating their identity and spirituality. Created by Sam Sellers (valued at $49)
  • “Religious Trauma Questionnaire” - Questions for individuals and therapists to support finding language for peoples’ experience of harm in faith spaces. Created by Jane Kennedy.
  • "Empowering Your NO After Religious Trauma" A trauma-informed resource for anyone reclaiming their voice after high-control religion. Offering practical scripts and gentle encouragement to help you set boundaries without guilt and heal on your own terms. Created by Elise Heerde (valued at $29).

Discounts on speaker resources.

With an all-access pass you automatically qualify for a 20% discount on select online courses by Meg Cowan, Sam Sellers and Jane Kennedy. 

Get the All Access Pass

All Access Pass Giveaway (Early Bird Only)

We’re bundling up resources from our speakers to give away. There’s two packages up for grabs. 

You’re automatically in the draw when you purchase the all-access pass (Early Bird Only).

Package 1

  • Gutsy Girls by Josie McSkimming
  • Cult Trip. Inside the world of coercion and control. by Anke Richter
  • A Place at His Table: A Biblical Exploration of Faith, Sexuality, and the Kingdom of God by Joel Hollier

Package 2

  • Excommunicated by Craig Hoyle
  • Poems for When the World is Ending by Will Small
  • Do as I say. How cults control, why we join them and what they teach us about coercion and control. By Sarah Steel.

Giveaway will be drawn and announced during the event.

All Access Pass Giveaway (Early Bird Only)

Secure Your Place Now

Exclusive Offer

All Access Pass

AU$125
  • Live Broadcasts and Replays

  • All content available

  • Valid until 31/12/2025 23:59

The All Access Pass gives you unlimited access to all session recordings until December 31st 2025, plus nine additional bonuses.

Just a heads up! 

To complete your registration, you’ll need to add at least one session to your schedule. Don’t worry, you can always come back later and make changes, but we do need at least one session selected to process your rego.

Say Hello To Our Speakers

We couldn't be more excited about our lineup of Australian and New Zealand voices

Schedule

Take a look at the exciting agenda we have planned for you.

Day 1

Welcome, Welcome, Welcome

Sam Sellers Elise Heerde Jane Kennedy

Sam Sellers, Elise Heerde & Jane Kennedy

Religious Trauma 101

Sam Sellers Elise Heerde Jane Kennedy

Sam Sellers, Elise Heerde & Jane Kennedy

Reconstructing Identity After Leaving Faith.

Josie McSkimming

Dr Josie McSkimming

Psychotherapist & Supervisor, Dr Josie McSkimming Counselling

Purity Culture’s Impact on Relationships, Sex & Pleasure

Meg Cowan

Meg Cowan

Sexologist & Relationship Coach, Meg Cowan

On Megachurch Implosions and Rebuilding Community

Michael Frost Shane Meyer-Holt

Michael Frost & Shane Meyer-Holt

Story Session - Fiona Hull on being a bad Christian on Instagram

Fiona Hull

Fiona Hull

@justcurious.au

Cult Conversations

Laura McConnell Conti Anke Richter Caroline Ansley Tore Klevjer

Laura McConnell Conti, Anke Richter, Dr Caroline Ansley & Tore Klevjer

Documentary: Decult Voices - Beyond Belief

Anke Richter

Anke Richter

Founder, DECULT

Day 2

Acknowledgement of Country & Statement of Diversity

Sam Sellers Elise Heerde Jane Kennedy

Sam Sellers, Elise Heerde & Jane Kennedy

Reconnecting With Your Body Through Movement and Self-Compassion

Erica Webb

Erica Webb

Counsellor

Does The Church Have A Future?

Will Small Radhika Sukumar-White

Will Small & Rev Radhika Sukumar-White

Excommunicated. Craig Hoyle's Moving Story of Leaving the Exclusive Brethren

Craig Hoyle

Craig Hoyle

Author & Journalist

Speaking Out: Podcasting, Visibility & the Impact of Telling Our Stories

Sarah Steel Brian McDowell Troy Waller

Sarah Steel, Brian McDowell & Troy Waller

Christianity Doesn’t Belong To The White Man

Tanya Riches Tau’alofa (Lofa) Anga’aelangi

Dr Tanya Riches & Rev Tau’alofa (Lofa) Anga’aelangi

We Don’t Do That Here… Do We? Christian Nationalism & Patriarchy in Australia

Clare McIvor

Clare McIvor

Creator, Unchurchable

Day 3

Acknowledgement of Country & Statement of Diversity

Sam Sellers Elise Heerde Jane Kennedy

Sam Sellers, Elise Heerde & Jane Kennedy

Holding Space for Religious Trauma: Lived Experience & Clinical Practice

Sam Sellers Elise Heerde Jane Kennedy

Sam Sellers, Elise Heerde & Jane Kennedy

Groomed: Pastors who Prey on Adult Congregation Members #ChurchToo

Jaime Simpson

Jaime Simpson

Aaron Kelly's Story of Queerness, Suppression, and the Journey Back to Self

Aaron Kelly

Aaron Kelly

Understanding Cult Leaving: A Gendered, Generational, and Therapeutic Lens

Charlotte Cummings

Charlotte Cummings

Counsellor, Charlotte Cummings NZ

The Hidden Harm of Conversion Practices: Ideology, Legislation, and Recovery

Timothy Jones Nathan Despott Chris Csabs

Dr Timothy Jones, Nathan Despott & Chris Csabs

Coming Home to Ourselves - A Contemplative Session

Liz Milani Jess Mausama

Liz Milani & Jess Mausama

Bonuses

Bonus Session - Deconstructing Fear-Based Faith

Mel Winterbine

Mel Winterbine

Counsellor & Coach, Manna & Hive

Bonus Session - When You Just Have To Laugh: Cringeworthy Reflections

Sam Sellers Elise Heerde Jane Kennedy

Sam Sellers, Elise Heerde & Jane Kennedy

Bonus Session - Self-Soothing Using Havening Techniques

Jane Kennedy

Jane Kennedy

Trauma Counsellor, Jane Kennedy Counselling

We acknowledge the Indigenous people of the lands we have recorded on. Our speakers and hosts are located on Aboriginal Country all across the lands now called Australia and Maori lands across Aoteoroa. We pay our respect to Indigenous elders who are custodians of these lands and extend that respect to any Indigenous people attending our event.

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